This article is a mixture of Rosie’s personal experience as well as research – where Rosie has used research, she has linked in the blog.
Did you know that if you’re using a surrogate to carry your baby, you can be the one to breastfeed your baby if you want to? It is possible for females to produce breastmilk, even if they haven’t given birth, and this is called induced lactation. Along with this, there are many other truths about breastfeeding after surrogacy that people don’t know about. Let’s look at this in more detail…
What Is Induced Lactation?
Before we learn more about the truths surrounding breastfeeding and surrogacy, let’s look at how induced lactation is possible. It takes dedication and time, and many mothers start preparing many months before the birth of their child. Here are some ways you can encourage induced lactation:
- Taking hormones and medication: Taking hormones like progesterone and estrogen can trick your body into believing you’re pregnant. Other forms of medication may also be taken to encourage lactation as well.
- Pumping the breasts: Doing this encourages the release of prolactin, which plays a huge role in stimulating milk production. If you pump your breasts in the lead up to the birth, it trains your body to produce milk. Emptying them means your body can learn how to create more. Here are some of the myths surrounding breastfeeding after surrogacy and why they’re untrue.
Myth 1) “Induced Lactation is Impossible”
It is very much possible, and it’s important that this is known so intended mothers can make the best choices for them. Yes, it requires commitment, and it can pose various challenges, but many women induce lactation. It’s important to start as early
as possible and work with a professional to give you the best chance of successful lactation.
Myth 2) “Induced Lactation is Pointless”
Breastfeeding comes with many benefits, and one of these is that it creates an emotional bond between the baby and their mother. Breastfeeding provides skin-to-skin contact which helps to build a connection. When a mother is breastfeeding, the hormone oxytocin is released in the mother and her baby, which provides feelings of tranquility. These emotions can strengthen an emotional bond and help a mother and her baby feel closer.
Myth 3) “Milk Produced From Induced Lactation Doesn’t Contain Enough Nutrients For The Baby”
Another benefit of breastfeeding is that it provides a newborn baby with essential nutrients to help them grow. It can also strengthen their immune system and lessen the risk of various health issues. Milk produced through induced lactation is very similar to the composition of milk produced by a woman who’s given birth. One small difference is that induced breast milk might have less colostrum in it. Colostrum is good for feeding good bacteria and getting rid of any harmful bacteria. Sometimes, a decision may be made that the surrogate will be the one to breastfeed or pump for the baby after they’re born to make sure they’re given high colostrum.
Some mothers who induce lactation choose to supplement their milk supply with formula or donor milk.
Celebrating Surrogacy and Induced Lactation
Surrogates are incredible people who bring new life into the world. If we can debunk the myths that surround breastfeeding, then we can create a safe space for surrogates and intended mothers. Induced lactation is amazing, and it’s important that we celebrate that where possible.


